How to Be Wise and Achieve Your Goals

 By Christina Sponias 

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The unconscious mind that produces our dreams is an excellent doctor and teacher. After mastering the dream language you will have a direct communication with the wise unconscious mind and learn how to achieve a goal thanks to the unconscious guidance.
Instead of acting based on your suppositions (besides the knowledge you may have) you will act based on wisdom, without making any mistake. You only have to get used with the dream logic and learn the meaning of the most important dream symbols to start understanding the real meaning of dreams, which was discovered by Carl Jung.

The initial process of adaptation is tiring because the dream language is not a simple language. In the beginning it looks like Chinese. However, you will get used with this language (like so many other people did) and then, you will have the chance to follow a perfect plan to achieve a goal that may seem to be impossible to be achieved today.

I simplified the dream language and now this first step is not as difficult as it used to be when it was based only on Carl Jung's discoveries. However, this first step is tiring because in the beginning you have to study the dream language and translate many dreams into practice; not only your own dreams, but many other people's dreams. Only then will you really master the dream language.
In the beginning you have to study the dream language the same way you have to study any other language made only by words (like English or French), but once you have this knowledge you will use it for life. If you speak a second language you know how hard it is to be able to really speak a foreign language. On the other hand, you know that two different languages are not so different and this is not a problem. You only have to learn each language's rules.

I speak Greek and Portuguese since I was a child because my parents are Greek but I was born in Sao Paulo, Brazil. The fact that I knew two languages always was an advantage in my life. This fact also helped me learn the English language, and it basically helped me learn the meaning of the complicated dream language. The Greek language is quite complicated and it is an ancient language, which has changed with time.
The dream language may look like Greek or Chinese for you in the beginning, but its meaning is specific and always the same. You only have to learn its rules. I simplified everything for you.
All dreams contain precious messages that you must learn. The dream messages will help you attain any goal you may set.

Let's suppose that your goal is to find happiness in life, a very common goal. This is a difficult goal, even though it doesn't seem to be so difficult when you are young.
You will verify how ignorant you are, and discover many truths you ignore. The unconscious mind will show you in your dreams everything you have to pay attention to in order to find happiness in life. You will make a list, and then follow all the necessary steps to achieve your main goal.
You will learn how to find sound mental health, peace, and happiness. You will be able to achieve all goals and even save the world with your brilliant work.

You will follow the perfect plan of the divine unconscious mind for the purification of your spirit and the transformation of your personality. Then, you will follow the perfect plan of the unconscious mind for the specific matter of your interest. First of all you have to pass through a process of psychotherapy and become a mentally healthy and self-confident person.
After you psychotherapy, you will be able to care about other matters, which are very important for you, but not as important as your mental health. The unconscious mind always cures your psyche because this is the most important matter of your life.

You have to be a balanced person. You must be able to always control your behavior and always act with wisdom, even in the difficult situations when you are tempted to explode and show anger. You will learn how to always be calm, and never make the mistakes made by those who temporarily lose the control of their behavior because their anti-conscience takes the place of their ego.

The anti-conscience is our primitive conscience, which is very dangerous because it has satanic characteristics. It generates mental illnesses within our human conscience. The unconscious mind shows you in your dreams how to completely eliminate your anti-conscience through consciousness.
This way, you will never have the behavior of a wild animal, and you will never be contaminated by the poison of hatred. You will always show compassion and understanding to all human beings, independently of their actions. Your behavior will always be wise, without depending on other people's behavior.

You will verify the value of the unconscious psychotherapy when you will be a superior person. Then, you will have the chance to care about how to create something, how to make good friends, how to be the first one to do what is impossible to be done in a certain area, and so on. The unconscious mind helps you achieve each goal by helping you organize your actions.

Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung's research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to exactly translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.
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The 7 Habits of Highly Successful People

 by: sangesh

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"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People undertaking" was written by management specialist and former adviser to Bill Clinton, Stephen Covey.

This book presents seven principles which, if established as a habit and integrated into our lifestyle and our thinking, will help us achieve what we do and improve our effectiveness.
According to Covey, 7 habits correspond to the principles of "true north" that are universal and timeless. It also prides itself on not having invented these habits. Instead, he says simply having known the identfier and implemented a methodology on how they fit together.

What are these 7 habits that will help us achieve all that we undertake?

Private victory:

The first 3 habits to match a job to do on yourself to go from dependency to self.
Indeed, before thinking to improve its relations with others, he must already improved his relationship with oneself.

Habit 1: Be proactive
This habit is the ability to control his environment rather than letting it control us.

Habit 2: Be aware from the start where you want to go
This usually involves having a vision of what we wish to achieve and realize our lifetime and to deduce the directions given to it.

Habit 3: Give priority to priority
This is to establish and implement activities to achieve the targets set in previous habit. We must devote time to what is important and not what seems urgent.

The public victory:
The following three patterns correspond to a job to do at our relations in order to pass the state from independence to interdependence.
They can be successfully applied only once the first 3 habits assimilated.
Their implementation is nevertheless a condition that none sina to achieve all that we undertake.

Habit 4: Think Win / Win
He is always trying to find solutions that satisfy both parties involved to build strong relationships over the long term. It is the habit that it is better to focus patiently built a successful and sustainable small victories rather than immediate but ephemeral.

Habit 5 - Seek first to understand, then to be understood
Empathic listening is essential to truly understand a person, situation and open to his ideas.

Habit 6 - Take advantage of the synergy
This habit is to work creatively and is based on the principle that "the whole is greater than the sum of its parts" working together to achieve a goal will therefore help to achieve more than individuals could do separately.

Renewal

Habit 7 - sharpen your faculties
It is the habit that encompasses all the others because it will allow their renewal and allow them to demonstrate and increase. It will thus be able to maintain our "capacity".

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Steps Towards Becoming Successful in Life

 By Ray Drake 

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Becoming successful is a dream of everyone. From the street beggars to the hard working fellows, success is always on their mind. But you realize that most people who dream of success don't actually succeed. In most cases, it is not that they have not done enough, but rather they have followed the wrong path. Success can be as easy as looking at something or as hard as hitting a wall. In order to take an easy way out, here is what you should do.

Decide Where you are Going and When

Knowing your destination is the first step towards succeeding in life. It is important for you visualize your future, and bring it to the present. This not only inspires you to work towards your objective, but it also helps you to focus within your lines. If you don't know where you are going, it becomes hard for you to focus, one of the most important pillars of success. Furthermore, when you don't know your destination, you can take any offer, which can delay your quest to become successful.
In addition, you need to set timelines on when you intend to reach your destination. Setting timeframes helps you to focus on doing what is necessary at a particular time. Timeframes also help you to fast track the proceedings, failures challenges, and thus help you to adjust accordingly.

Highlight Reasons Why

In order to motivate your journey, it is important to know why you need to achieve your goals. The reasons behind your objectives will fuel you to pursue the journey even further. Therefore, you need to brainstorm different reasons as to why you would achieve your objectives; do not worry about the list, just list them. In fact, the longer the list, the better. Highlighting reasons helps your emotions to remain alert always as you embark on the actualization journey. Furthermore, it helps to overcome the stumbling blocks along the way, which sometimes can demoralize you.

Brainstorm and Take the Most Relevant Action

After highlighting the reasons why you need to achieve your goals, it is time to take action. It is through your actions that your vision is going to be actualized. No matter how big or small your vision is, your commitment towards achieving it is determined by the actions you take. Therefore, brainstorm through various actions available, and follow the one that makes sense to you. Do not follow the action that you do not understand, but rather something that you can believe.

If in any case you are not able to design your goals, list reasons to achieve it or the action you should take, you can always seek professional help. Success is worthy investing in credible professionals to help you. Do not guess on your future, or the path you should take. Where you have any shadow of doubt, always seek the expert's advice. This can be the difference between your success and failure in life.
Succeeding in life is simple, just three steps away. Identify your goals, list reasons why you would like to achieve those goals and finally design strategies to help you achieve those goals. Do not feel pressured, make it simple - where you are not able to do the above, just contact the professional.

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How To Create A Look That Works For You

 By Thais Zoe 

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Fash­ion is a funny thing and at times may seem fickle and unfriendly.
The media and celebrity cul­ture we live in can eas­ily influ­ence you into trends that aren't flat­ter­ing for your lifestyle or body type.

Or per­haps you refuse this pres­sure, get annoyed or over­whelmed, caus­ing you to aban­don or ignore trends that may enhance your appear­ance, com­fort or per­sonal style?
Com­po­si­tion and Color are keys to last­ing wardrobe hap­pi­ness and find­ing a look that works for YOU.
I will write about Color next time...
But, today I will focus on Com­po­si­tion. Or, in other words; how things are put together.
What­ever your expe­ri­ence, I encour­age you to read on and chal­lenge you to make one of these styling tips your own.

1. Bal­ance the top and bot­tom fit of your clothing.
Wear­ing loose fit­ting bot­toms; maxi skirt, lounge pants, etc... is a great way to be com­fort­able and styl­ish. But be sure to pair with a fit­ted top, as wear­ing a baggy top with loose bot­toms can eas­ily go from comfy to frumpy!

Or per­haps you're feel­ing like you want to cover up a bit more and wear a tunic or over­sized blouse. This can actu­ally be a very chic look if you are sure to skip the baggy bot­toms and instead com­bine with leg­gings, yoga pants, fit­ted jeans or skinny skirt.

2. Pick the cor­rect skirt length to flat­ter your body type.
As I see it there are three no-fail choices depend­ing on your shape.

a. at mid-thigh
b. at the knee bend
c. at the floor

I see A LOT of skirts and dresses that stop right above the knee.
Hear this: The "just above the knee" look that is flat­ter­ing on few! It throws off the pro­por­tion of your leg mak­ing you knees look thicker.
The other length I see a lot of is mid-calf. It, too, con­fuses the body's pro­por­tions regard­less of your height.
My advice?
Go all the way to the floor (the shorter you are the slim­mer the skirt should be). OR... go up to your knee bend, gen­tly cov­er­ing your knee cap. This is a pretty length on most of us.
The guide is slightly dif­fer­ent for shorts, jeans or capris. But, be sure to pay atten­tion to how the dif­fer­ent lengths affect your look overall.

And, remem­ber - unless you have a per­fect bod - the just above the knee length rarely works well.
Also, when pick­ing a jean or trouser length, con­sider if they are going to be dressy or casual. Mean­ing... worn with high heels or flats?
Gen­er­ally, hav­ing a con­tin­ual ver­ti­cal line from top to bot­tom is impor­tant to a styl­ish appear­ance. Pants that stop at the ankle or back of the heel are not ideal.
Jeans and all full length (non-skinny) bot­toms should just barely graze the ground as you stand in bare feet. Once flat shoes are on, the shoe sole will give enough dis­tance from the floor to pre­vent wear and tear.
3. The wrong shoe height can ruin an outfit.
As I men­tion above, if your pant (or skirt) just grazes the ground when you are in bare feet, the cor­rect heel height is FLAT.
If you are going to wear high heels with a skirt, dress, flared or boot­leg trouser, you will look best when the length of the cloth­ing piece goes all the way to the floor.
I often see skirts and pants that have a shorter length suit­able with flats, worn with high heels. The only time this works is with skinny jeans.
And a word about the con­tin­u­ing pop­u­lar­ity of maxi-skirts. Their fit is meant to be graz­ing the floor in bare feet and worn with flats.

I hope you can draw from these three style principles.
The main thing is to not think you are doing it "wrong." All of this is guid­ance for the path you are on.
I am for­ever try­ing things that don't suit me, and remem­ber­ing what does work!
We're in this together...
Start with inte­grat­ing only ONE of these sug­ges­tions. Prefer­ably, what­ever is eas­i­est in work­ing with the clothes you already have.

You will discover your own style before you know it!

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Brainwashing Exposed

 By William J. Schneider D.C. 

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Brainwashing technique

There are ways of brainwashing you that are covert, repetitious and very effective. You probably are receiving brainwashing without your knowledge right now. These techniques are the reason you are overweight, smoke, have pain, cannot sleep, along with most of your short-comings.
You have been receiving messages your entire life that have caused you to doubt your own thoughts, beliefs and perceptions. This happens all the time and it has become a basic process of human communication. These patterns of communication most often are used to the benefit of another party. However, recognizing these techniques in action you can stop them before they harm you further.
Most of these techniques are so effective that the recipient willingly reevaluates what they perceive. However, these techniques can also be very forceful symbolically demanding the recipient changes their perception.

Questioning Brainwashing

One of these covert brainwashing techniques occurs within the format of questioning. Repeated questioning organized in a precarious pattern will cause the subject to analyze things about which they were not even thinking. As this process proceeds the subject unknowingly follows through until there is a state of confusion regarding the original thought or experience. A new memory, thought or altered way of thinking could be the end result.
Here is what happens when a skilled individual questions you. Each time a questioned is posed you may respond with subtle variations of a story or memory. This skilled practitioner, advertiser, authority figure can cause you to eventually doubt your own thinking. The longer this process, the more it is repeated, the less you recognize the pattern, the more effective the outcome. Before you know it you do not know what you think or have experienced and the more you agree with the message, advertisement or authority figures representation of the information. You have just been brainwashed!

Pay Attention and Recognize the Brainwashing

If you pay attention to the news, to advertisers, to authority figures, you will start to notice this form of brainwashing. Some individuals are so skilled at these techniques that they use it as a standard form of communication.
If you are an innocent, you will become a victim. It is vitally important to be on guard for these techniques. You need to know that you are under constant assault. If you do not it won't be long before you no longer have original thought. You will no longer have discerning thought processes. You will no longer be in charge of your life. You will think, you will do, you will purchase, you will follow and you will be one of the many whom have been brainwashed. And you will not even realize it!

You need to question everything. If you are overweight, if you can't stop smoking, if you are riddled in pain, if you lay awake at night with insomnia, your brain racing, preventing you from sleeping, if you have any condition in which someone else can benefit, that condition was created, and only you can reverse it.

Dr. Schneider is a Holistic Physician, specializing in alternative therapies. He investigates the deep hidden causes of health problems. Imagine having the ability to change who you are. Follow his advice and one day you will reflect back on this point in time and be amazed at what you have learned. You will be grateful that you have control of your life again.

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5 Funny Fears and Phobias

 By Morgan K Taylor 

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If you stop any person in the street and ask them what they are afraid of, you are going to be hard pressed to find anyone that says nothing. The most common answers that you hear will be things like heights, spiders, closed spaces, and flying, as well as several others that you will probably find them all too familiar. What you are unlikely to hear is people speaking in hushed tones about their incredible aversion to celery or wearing fuzzy slippers, but that doesn't mean that those types of phobias do not exist. The truth is that they are far more common than you might imagine, so let's take a look at a few of the most strange and funny fears.

Leprophobia - modern medicine has helped fight against a large number of diseases over the years, but that doesn't seem to stop some people from fearing they might make a comeback. Leprophobia is the fear of leprosy and it's so strong in some people that they are even afraid to attend a hockey game because they heard all about the face-offs.

Ithyphallophobia - this may seem a little hard to believe, but there are some people that are deadly afraid of erections. Even if the erection shows up on a stand-up guy that they have known for years, the very sight of that swollen appendage is enough to have them scampering off in search of a stiff drink.

Nomophobia - it's more than a little frustrating to leave your house without your cell phone, but it isn't usually enough to make you loose control. The same can't be said for nomophobia sufferers who fall into a state of panic if they end up anywhere out of mobile phone range.

Helminthophobia - we all end up in the ground at some point where bugs and worms will eat away at our rotting corpse. This is definitely an unpleasant thought, but not really one that crosses people's minds very often. This is not the case for those who suffer from helminthophobia, as being infested by worms is something that goes through their mind every minute of the day. I guess that rules out fishing as a hobby for those poor folks.

Gymnophobia - most fears and phobias are things that we can avoid with a little bit of effort. Gymnophobia, or the fear of being naked, is one that is especially irrational, unless of course you work as a stripper or a tour guide at a nudist's colony. The only person that need ever see you naked is yourself and even then you can easily snap on a blindfold to protect your modesty.
The list goes on and on, but it's probably best to stop now as there may very well be some folks out there who are deadly afraid of lists. For those of you who have made it to this point without breaking out in hives, I thank you, and you may even want to consider researching some phobias that are even stranger than the ones listed above.

by Morgan K. Taylor
The author has a keen interest in productivity, personal development and life fulfillment. In 2011, he created REALITYPLEX in an effort to provide an online space where people can obtain useful information, connect with others and find solutions to their personal daily concerns and worries. What's in your head? Learn and share @ http://realityplex.com/

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Redefining Failure

 By Debra Payne, PhD 

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It's time for us to redefine what we think of as failure. Failure has gotten a bad rap for far too long, and I, for one, must stand in its defense.
I am an expert on the tyranny of this word. My own definition of failure in my life is strident and all-encompassing. My inner critic is a dictator who wants to crush me into the ground beyond recovery. I grovel at her feet, begging for scraps of approval and forgiveness. In these moments, I am a person whose soul has been stolen by the relentless propaganda running through her own brain. When I see others with amorphous, cruel interpretations of their experiences, I recognize what's going on. As an educator and a coach, I see this over-interpretation of the word failure on a daily basis, and I see the pain that it causes. That's why I'm here to help redefine the word.

We've all read quotes on success, and failure, and trying, and trying again. Some people read those quotes, believe them, get inspired, and move on. Very likely, those people are not reading these observations. We who are reading this are the truly faithful fans of the word - those devout, zealous victims of failure who attach intense emotion to the word. We attach vivid images, too, and a multitude of experiences as evidence of the imminent possibility of failure. We are married to the shoulds and the coulds and the woulds, the unachievable goals, and the standards that shoot far beyond perfectionism. We march with all our might in defense of our own suffering.

But what if failure weren't such a horrible thought? What if we were to welcome it, instead, to the point where we'd want to adorn the walls of our houses with decorative wooden signs sporting this inspirational word f-word? Entertain, briefly, the possibility of embracing failure and delighting in the many interesting details it provides. Failure, instead of being the absence of success, could be nuanced, instead. If failure had a texture, it could be flannel, and we could run our fingers over it and feel the comfort in knowing that there's warmth and softness there.

Failure. Hmm... It's attractive. It's compelling. It means we've accumulated experiences that are contrary to our desired effects, and those unexpected turns taught us, instead. Instead of reinforcing our steadfast beliefs about what should be, we get a beautiful myriad of interesting details that deepen our lives and offer us new directions.

Failure. It's creative. It's a springboard for expanded awareness. Instead of filing away another success, we get to have this rich experience that teaches us and requires us to go beyond what we initially expected. Endless possibilities exist with failure! What if failure were just an invitation for further consideration of options, and an entry point for even better stuff down the road? What if it made us less afraid to try because, suddenly, we realized that without this tyrannical fear of results, a rainbow of rich possibilities could then open up before us?
The definition of failure, then, might be "new possibilities." It could also mean revelry and delight. And the definition must certainly include the term renewal.

Debra Payne, PhD is an Associate Certified Coach (ACC) and a proud member of the International Coaching Federation. She is also the President/CEO/Big Cheese of her company, Better Than Success. She specializes in helping Academic Women in transition. Her mission is to assist others in taking the lid off anything that is preventing them from pursuing bold, authentic dreams. Kiss your self-limiting beliefs goodbye at http://www.betterthansuccess.com/

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