By
Jaachynma Agu
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You are no fool, you are not worthless, you are not useless neither are you cheap. You are a jewel of inestimable value!
Peradventure you got a wrong guy, one that thinks with his fists rather than his head, one that practice boxing and karate in-house. Girl, don't hang in there until you get killed. Make a move, take a stroll, give yourself a break. There is no harm in excusing yourself from an abusive relationship, don't die there for if you do, you died for nothing. You haven't fulfilled your purpose; you haven't done all that you were sent to this world to do. Don't give any man the opportunity to snuff life out of you.
I jokingly tell folks "if the guy is too angry to raise his fist, I will be too fast to move my legs and pierce through the door of the relationship".
If you allowed yourself to get killed, you are at loss for all your efforts would have gone down the drain; all the dreams you came to this world with will return with you to your maker - untapped and God is not going to be happy with you for returning His talents to Him and your purpose unfulfilled. He preferred you get broken-hearted and He will fix it for you than you returning to Him earlier than He scheduled for you. God loves broken stuffs for He can make good stuffs out of them.
Ensure you are not the one provoking the man to using his fist; learn to control your tongue and temper. A friend once told me of how her mother gulps water and keeps it in her mouth while her father raged; the idea is this: with the water in her mouth, she won't be able to talk, what wisdom! When you have discharged your duties effectively and controlled your tongue et al yet the man still raises his fists then be quick to exit! Exit and exist rather than stay and be strangled.
Importantly, ladies, acknowledge God in all your dealings. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; and lean not unto your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path." (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Never allow your desires to lead you away from God; allow nothing else to control you other than God and His Word. No matter what you see or pass through, don't allow them to define you.
You have already been defined by your Maker no circumstance has the right to define you again.
Copyright, Agu, Jaachynma N.E.
Photo: mixeddigital.com
You are no fool, you are not worthless, you are not useless neither are you cheap. You are a jewel of inestimable value!
Peradventure you got a wrong guy, one that thinks with his fists rather than his head, one that practice boxing and karate in-house. Girl, don't hang in there until you get killed. Make a move, take a stroll, give yourself a break. There is no harm in excusing yourself from an abusive relationship, don't die there for if you do, you died for nothing. You haven't fulfilled your purpose; you haven't done all that you were sent to this world to do. Don't give any man the opportunity to snuff life out of you.
I jokingly tell folks "if the guy is too angry to raise his fist, I will be too fast to move my legs and pierce through the door of the relationship".
If you allowed yourself to get killed, you are at loss for all your efforts would have gone down the drain; all the dreams you came to this world with will return with you to your maker - untapped and God is not going to be happy with you for returning His talents to Him and your purpose unfulfilled. He preferred you get broken-hearted and He will fix it for you than you returning to Him earlier than He scheduled for you. God loves broken stuffs for He can make good stuffs out of them.
Ensure you are not the one provoking the man to using his fist; learn to control your tongue and temper. A friend once told me of how her mother gulps water and keeps it in her mouth while her father raged; the idea is this: with the water in her mouth, she won't be able to talk, what wisdom! When you have discharged your duties effectively and controlled your tongue et al yet the man still raises his fists then be quick to exit! Exit and exist rather than stay and be strangled.
Importantly, ladies, acknowledge God in all your dealings. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; and lean not unto your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path." (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Never allow your desires to lead you away from God; allow nothing else to control you other than God and His Word. No matter what you see or pass through, don't allow them to define you.
You have already been defined by your Maker no circumstance has the right to define you again.
Copyright, Agu, Jaachynma N.E.
Agu, Jaachynma N.E. is a successful, dynamic, prolific and Best-selling author.
She is the Author of Best-Selling Book: Risk It, Be Different, available at http://www.amazon.com/The-Best-Option-Jaachynma-Agu/dp/1469183021
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